Did you just break up with your man? Are you feeling alone now that he has left you? Do you believe that you can still gain him back? Below are the different advices on boyfriend break up.
1. First of all, decide whether the relationship is truly over. If you cannot erase the thought about your ex boyfriend and your relationship, you will definitely have a hard time moving on. But, this does not mean that you have to get him on trash right away.
2. There are different ways on how you can win him back. If you still want to be a part of his life, you can in a casual way hoping that you will become boyfriend and girlfriend once more. On the other hand, if you are ready to move on, take some steps for closure of the relationship. Closure is the process where you recognize that the relationship is over and you start to heal. Thus, it is important that in every closure, you need to let your partner know that you really are hurting. There are many steps and ways how to do this:
Talk to friends and family who are truly empathetic and can help you work through your feelings.
Go into short term therapy so you can work through your feelings with a dispassionate third party.
When your feelings are overwhelming, you can let it all out by doing a blog or a journal, or compose a poem and a song. This is the most effective, least expensive and relieving way of freely expressing your emotions and feelings without needing someone’s help.
3. Once you have come to some level of closure, get rid of anything you have of your exs. If all those things that remind you of your ex are still lingering in your mind, you will not be able to forget the pain from the boyfriend break up. There are things you do not want to return or throw it because of the memories attached to it. Other things you can just toss. And, if hes given you gifts that you want to keep, box them up and store them for the time being.
4. So, you already learned how to avoid him, now you need to know how to live a single life. You feel that time are too much strained in your life. Or, you may find that you are liberated by not having to do everything your ex wanted you to do. Get yourself involved with productive and healthy things that can give you happiness and joy. Go to the gym so that you look and feel good. Pamper yourself with great body spa. Take a Spanish class at the community center. Or you can be one of the volunteers for a social organization that gives help to others. By doing things that you are interested with, you can become fruitful and happier as a person. You will find that you miss your ex a lot less.
5. One of the ways you will know that you are over your ex is that you will start to develop feelings for a new guy. We do not know, but that feeling maybe reciprocated too. You will see that you have found a new man and eventually form a new relationship with him. That will be when you know you have really moved on after the boyfriend break up.
Johnny Wayne personally believes that all relationship can be saved but it all depends on how much effort is being put in. You can find out more about our Review of Second Chance Romance and the tips on How To Get Over Being Dumped.